A Life to LIve
Melody Hendrix


A Life to LIve
Melody Hendrix


A Life to Live
Melody Hendrix
Not everyone will understand your journey… that’s fine…It’s not their journey to make sense of…. It’s your. Zero Dean
Everyone is on their own personal journey, seeking their own truth. Sometimes we take things too personal. I have found that in order to really grow, as a soul, you have to come to an understanding that no matter what someone else has done to you, no matter who you wish them to be, people are who they are. The less you expect of them, the less you can be hurt by them. Melanie Koulouris
Never forget where you’ve been. Never lose sight of where you are going, and never take for granted the people who travel the journey with you. Susan Gale
It is good to have an end to journey towards; but it is the journey that matters in the end. Ernest Hemingway


On the Porch
Onisha Ellis
My husband and I spent a few days this past week in Raleigh, North Carolina visiting family and eating way too much good food. Since we returned home, I have been busy catching up as well as wandering aimlessly. Fortunately, our guest blogger, Patricia Franklin sent a story that I am posting today. I feel better missing my posting day if I can share something good. Enjoy- Onisha
Patricia Franklin
A Few Thoughts
I just had a quick story to tell you. We got home last night and I noticed the hummingbird feeder was out of juice. I wasn’t going to put any more out, as it draws the hornets and they fight with the hummingbird to get it. Also, it is getting to the end of the season. But, I was standing at the patio door this morning, about 6 feet away from the feeder, which hangs right in front of my window over the sink. Little Hummy came up to the patio window and buzzed around several times right in front of my face. I was a little startled and thought “Is she trying to tell me something?” I went about my work in the kitchen and went over to the sink to start the dishes. She came flying over and was buzzing around the feeder. I watched her and suddenly she came up to the window over the sink and flew around in front of my face again. I said to myself, “She really does know where the food comes from, and is telling me she is hungry.” There are fewer flowers around now, so she is looking for food. Guess she does not mind fighting with the hornets. I sit outside frequently in my chair next to the feeder, and I know she keeps an eye on it because occasionally another hummingbird will come, and she is immediately there to chase it away. So I made up some juice and hung it out there. She has been back about six times already today.

I loved this story. I do believe that hummingbirds communicate with us humans. We have had them fly from the feeder to hover in front of us as though saying “thank you.” One summer my husband put his camera on the tripod and took some great photos we treasure. Here is one of them-Onisha

Do you have any hummingbird stories or photos? If so, it would be fun if you shared them in comments.
My Take
DiVoran Lites

The next morning, sitting on the porch with coffee, I see a young squirrel crawl along a power line. I’ve never seen one traveling upside down before, I figure he’s trying to catch up with his playmates who zing over trees and over the heavy black lines as if they were running through air. This small one must have slipped off the top of the line and is now clinging to the bottom looking at the sky. He tries to get back on top, but the lines separate throwing him back into his awkward position. He stops and looks up. Surely he is asking God what to do next. I wouldn’t like to see him fall the twelve feet or so, and I join him in his prayer. He crawls for a second then stops to ponder again. I go closer without opening the screen door so I can see him better, but by the time I get to the screen he’s already greeting his pal on the pole.

Again, I looked up from my writing and there was the baby bunny I met on the trail a few days ago. (Not really, I’m sure it was a different one.) A larger one came too, probably a sibling. They came from the Diceranda Sanctuary behind our house. The sun through their ears, makes them resemble pink stained glass. Of course the bunnies are looking for something good to eat. Most of what we have is Spider Plant, Mexican Heather, and Purple Queen, as well as pesticide-free grass and our Azalea bush.
To farmers the eating habits of rabbits can be devastating, but I wished they’d find something they liked so they would return. When I look up again they’ve gone to the easement. Tomorrow, I’ll bring my binoculars so I can see the critters closer up. You think you know their habits, but they can always surprise you if you watch. I saw a cardinal eat an azalea once. Did you know cardinals ate azalea petals? I didn’t. In season our big bush has so many flowers I’d be hard pressed to know which ones he has consumed.
A Life to Live
Melody Hendrix
Many children today have little contact with the natural world.The average 8 to 10 year-old spends nearly eight hours a day with a variety of different media, and older children and teenagers spend more than 11 hours per day.” Television, long a popular “babysitter,” remains the dominant medium, but computers, tablets and cellphones are gradually taking over. Many come to view the real world as fake.
Electronics plays a role in the rising rates of childhood obesity, Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD), Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), depression, and other social, physical and developmental issues. It’s about the future — not just for young people but for the entire planet. “If we raise a generation of kids whose activities are all indoors, they’ll never develop a relationship with the environment — they’ll see no reason to care. Connecting kids to the out of doors in a way that makes them realize, ‘this is fun, this is a place I want to be’ — that’s going to create a generation of environmental stewards.”
We must teach our children how to connect with nature and care about earth. Let them get dirty, really dirty. Electronics are good, but not when they never have a chance to connect with nature and God our Creator, their senses will never be awaken by the abundant life surrounding them. They will never wander longingly through the forest in search of mystery. They will never experience peace, beauty and gentleness that comes from that which God has made for our pleasure. This image of my granddaughter, was taken at Lukas Nursery’s butterfly conservatory in Oviedo. It’s a wonderful place to give your kids a camera and let them touch nature and take pictures of flowers and butterflies. Go in the gift shop and buy a little butterfly house and raise some butterflies. They will tell you how. It’s a beautiful world. Let’s wake up everyday and be thankful for it and find a way to share it with our children.

I am retired and enjoying life. My hobbies are my 5 grandchildren, son and daughter, and my loving husband. I am a photographer and extreme nature lover. I love spending time in my garden or in the wilderness connected to God my Creator.

A Life to Live
Melody Hendrix


A Life to Live
Melody Hendrix
Isn’t it amazing what a smile can do. Here are just some the wonderful reasons to smile everyday. Lowers stress and anxiety. Releases endorphin’s. Makes you more attractive. Strengthens your immune system. Decreases pain. Brings joy and zest to life. Make someone’s day today.

I am retired and enjoying life. My hobbies are my 5 grandchildren, son and daughter, and my loving husband. I am a photographer and extreme nature lover. I love spending time in my garden or in the wilderness connected to God my Creator.
Judy is on a blogging break and I’m enjoying going through Judy’s older post and choosing favorites to share. I hope you enjoy this one. I did-Onisha
Sunday Memories
Judy Willis

I love to watch squirrels. They are such fun to see – digging in the grass for buried treasures; chasing each other around the tree; sitting on their haunches, tail up and curled, eating some delightful morsel….
For some time, I had been feeding pecans to the squirrels in the back yard. I would stand in the doorway and place the pecan closer and closer to my foot, just to see how close they would come to me.
Why is the dog, Maxie, running through the house? Is she chasing something? Then why isn’t she barking? As I looked down over the bannister….who/what belonged to that gray tail? Then I understood, and….FRED! THERE’S A SQUIRREL IN THE HOUSE!!
As Fred ran to get a broom, I ran down the stairs and grabbed Maxie. I took her to the front door and opened it and the screen door. I crouched down, holding her wiggling body by her collar, next to me. Fred ran into the living room. Then I heard him scream a word that I had never heard him say before!
Next thing I know, the squirrel is racing for the open door. And I just let go of Maxie and let her chase that squirrel to her heart’s content! She didn’t catch it, of course, but not for lack of trying.
Seems the squirrel had jumped up on top of one of the picture frames over the couch. As Fred swung the broom at it – it jumped at his face! Hence the “word.” But he was after that squirrel as fast as possible.
From then on, any time Maxie saw a squirrel outside the house, she went crazy, trying to get to it. She never barked, but boy! did she race back and forth in front of the windows.
I shall never feed a pecan to a squirrel again!
John 10:10